Column: Veiled racism & failed reconciliation

We must overcome the veiled racism that exists in our city. There is still the residue of redlining (East Waxahachie), economic deprivation (East Waxahachie), food deserts (East Waxahachie), over-policing (East Waxahachie), a lack of equitable educational opportunity, and job readiness (workforce development).

Thus, we need reconciliation not mere forgiveness. Please read that I said reconciliation, not reparations. Reconciliation is when both parties sit at the table and reach compromised solutions to ongoing problems. Reconciliation admits wrongs were done by both parties. Let us have a real conversation on why you hate us and why we despise you. That is not toxic; it is cathartic and the power of the Gospel states believers have the capacity to do it (2nd Corinthians 5:11-21).

To note, in my opinion, former councilperson Melissa Olson is a prime example of veiled racism and failed reconciliation. I quote her recent blog “Mr. Beatty—You know that I am not racist, nor have I ever had any ill will toward you in any way. I have held doors for you and even fixed a plate of food for you during a retreat because it is sometimes hard for you to get around. Nobody sees these random acts of kindness and that is okay. I only wanted to remind you of these, if you didn’t remember, to demonstrate some ways I have been respectful to you.”

So, if the barometer of not being a racist is holding a door open for someone or fixing their plate, then I need to return every diploma, degree, and certification I have ever received. Obviously, I missed something.

Most of the things Melissa Olson says are what, I believe, you should NEVER say. It makes me wonder how many people confuse genuine kindness as a salve to say: I am not a racist.

Melissa—prove it by your civic record.  How many noticeable and sustainable policies did you fight to get passed that make life a bit easier for the oppressed and marginalized?

Melissa—prove it to me by answering the following openly:

How many black pastors do you listen to on a regular basis to broaden your worldview?

How many black authors have you read to deepen your understanding of your neighbor’s struggle?

How many black journalists do you watch that give you a more insightful perspective?

Melissa-Maybe my next column should be on things you should never say to a black person. Your blog, from my perspective, proves you don’t know how to talk to us RESPECTFULLY.

Heck! I can fix my own plate and open my own doors but minorities in this country need people like you to make life more equitable. Equality is a dream. Equity and decency can be measured. Maybe you all can add ANTI-BIAS TRAINING to your Waxahachie 101 classes you are about to unveil.

I better stop right here. Congrats Chuck! I will be at the ribbon cutting. You deserve it.

Pastor Darron LaMonte Edwards is a 1988 graduate of Waxahachie High School. He serves as lead pastor for United Believers Community Church.